Bowling
Bowling is an old-school
date idea
with a great casual vibe. The two of you can have a beer or a slice of
pizza while engaging in a friendly competition. Just about every town
has a bowling alley. It’s a low-stress environment, so your date is
guaranteed to feel relaxed and comfortable, which is important. If she’s
comfortable, she’ll have more fun, and if she’s having fun, you’ll get
a second date.
Hiking
Exploring the great outdoors and getting some
physical activity is a terrific first date idea, provided your date is
up to the task. You need to check first to ensure that she’s the
outdoorsy type. A
high-maintenance woman
does not want to go on a hike (you know, that martini-sipping girl with
the perfectly manicured nails probably isn’t up for it). But for the
cute surfer girl you met at the pub, it’s perfect.
Aquarium
Aquariums aren't just for fourth-grade field trips; they're also a great place for a
first date.
You can walk leisurely with your lady friend as the two of you survey
all of the sea life. And underwater creatures are colorful, slimy,
toothy, and weird enough to keep things interesting.
The theater
The theater is another one of our favorite first
date ideas. It’s more original than a movie, plus it’s a little
classier. The two of you can get dressed up and enjoy yourselves. Plus,
there’s typically an intermission during which you’ll have a chance to
chat, unlike a movie, where you’ll spend the entire time sitting in the
dark. The theater is a good date for just about any
type of woman, but it’s particularly well-suited to bibliophiles and art lovers.
Driving range
Taking a date to the driving range is another fun
outdoors activity. It’s not particularly strenuous, though, so your
date doesn’t need to be athletic to have a good time. The driving range
makes a great daytime date. It’s also a good first date idea because if
she’s not a golfer, helping her with her swing is a great opportunity to
get up close and personal. Alternatively, if she’s a little more
experienced, it’s a chance for some playful competition.
Art gallery
A trip to the local art gallery is a great first
date
for the artsy girl. It’s not a bad idea to do a little research on the
exhibit beforehand, though. Not just because it’s good to seem at least a
little knowledgeable, but also because you don’t want to accidentally
take her to an exhibit on the horrors of meat-processing plants or the
atrocities of war.
Local music show
Remember that
conversation
is probably the most important part of a first date. However, the right
music in the right venue can provide the perfect ratio of conversation
to pleasant distraction. You don’t want a stadium show. You don’t want
heavy metal or techno -- the emphasis there is more on dancing than
listening. But if you can find a more mellow act in a smaller venue,
you’re golden.
Play tourist
We sometimes take our hometowns for granted.
Think about it: Every year, scores of people probably travel to your
city on vacation. Try to see your hometown from a tourist’s perspective.
Check out the local tourism office; it will have guides and information
on all kinds of
festivals,
events and sights worth seeing. Take your date on a touristy excursion
around your hometown and see the city from a different perspective.
Ice-skating
Ice-skating is innocent fun. That’s why it makes this list of our favorite
first date
ideas. It’s a great date for women who love to be active. And if she
doesn’t know how to skate, so what? Holding hands as you help her stay
on her feet is a fun way to spend an afternoon and an excellent
opportunity to get to know each other.
Try new cuisine
Sharing new experiences together is a great way
to build a connection with someone. That’s why if you’re going to take
her out to a
restaurant,
you should try taking her somewhere a little more adventurous. Check
out a new ethnic cuisine -- something neither of you have tried before.
The element of adventure will add some excitement to your date, and, who
knows, maybe the two of you will find a new favorite.
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