How to Motivate Yourself to Work Out
Method 1 of 3: Motivating Your Thoughts
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Find your reason. Find
your why. Everybody has one. What's yours? Do you want to be sexy (or
healthy) as hell? Do you want to see your grandkids through their 20s?
Do you want to fit into those jeans you wore 5 years ago? Do you have a
crush on that babe at work? What is it? Isolate it. Focus on it.
- You know how it goes -- "out of sight, out of mind." So if you keep
this reason on the forefront of your conscious (that is, you're thinking
about it all the time) you won't be able to ignore the logic
behind working out. It'll be the simplest solution to getting what you
want. Humans are pretty good at doing what they want -- so lining these
two things up (the motivation and the action) will become easy as pie.
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Talk yourself into it.
You're probably telling yourself something like "I should exercise
right now. If I don't work out, I'm never going to get fit." This
statement has many hidden obstacles. For one thing, feeling like you should do something makes it seem like work, or an obligation. That's no fun! You're also thinking about what will happen if you don't
exercise -- in other words, you're threatening yourself with punishment
(the image of being unfit). Subconsciously, you're flooding your mind
with negativity. Instead of thinking about how you'll look if you don't
work out, think about how great you'd look if you did!
- It's very important to think in the positive. Instead of, "God, I
feel terrible for not working out," think "I'd feel better if I worked
out -- so tomorrow I will." If you think in "nots" and "nevers" and
"didn'ts," you're just bogging yourself down, making it even harder to
get motivated!
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Set a goal for yourself. This can be at any
point -- it doesn't have to be your end goal! If you want to work out
twice a week, have a goal of two times a week -- simple. Then you can
reward yourself after! If you want to run 10 miles a week, have that be
your goal. Smaller goals (rather than losing 50 pounds, say) bring the
light at the end of the tunnel a bit nearer, making it more achievable.
- Sign up for a charity walk or run that will encourage you to train.
Once you have a set date to work towards, you'll have a goal in mind
while you're working out. The feeling of accomplishment after you're
done will encourage you to sign up for another or to just continue being
fit.
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Set up rewards. What's
the point in having goals if nothing is going to come from it? You gotta
reward yourself! And again -- the rewards don't have to be dangled in
front of you until the very end (that's just cruel); give yourself teeny
rewards from time to time for sticking with it.
- Make a reward for every session, every week, every pound, or every
task you do/exercise/lose/complete -- whichever speaks to you. This is
all about training your brain. When you see the good stuff behind all
the work, it'll give you the strength to keep going and to stick with
it.
- The other side of the coin is to make the alternatives worse. Tell
yourself if you don't work out, you have to organize the attic, donate
$50 to the KKK, or call that cousin you haven't spoken to since that
awkward family reunion. Now that's one threatening motivation.
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Don't be so hard on yourself.
You're not lazy -- this stuff is just hard. A person that runs 5 miles a
day doesn't get that the energy they exert is a lot less than the
energy someone uses that hasn't worked out in years. So don't label
yourself -- you're just starting out, that's all.
- When you stumble and fall, you have to understand that that's normal. It happens to everyone.
It's unimportant that you have a setback -- it's only important that
you get back up. These tiny failures will happen (you'll miss a day,
you'll get sick, whatever), so when they do, relax. You'll get back at
it. Keep your chin up.
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Hypnotize yourself.
Hypnosis is a state of intense concentration, when your mind is
extremely receptive. The "Best Me Technique" is a form of hyperempiria,
or suggestion-enhanced experience, which encourages you to
pre-experience the accomplishment of a goal. See the video below for
more insights as to how self-hypnosis can help you get motivated to
exercise.
- This will only really be effective if you believe it'll be
effective. If you're a skeptic, don't waste your time. Stick to more
concrete endeavors.
Method 2 of 3: Motivating Your Behavior
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Eat healthy.
If you wanted an article on dieting, you would've pulled up an article
on dieting. But the fact of the matter is that everything is
intrinsically connected. If you eat healthily, you'll feel healthier.
When you feel healthier, guess what? You'll feel more like working out.
- In addition to eating healthily, eat breakfast! Not only will it
energize you for the entire day, but it'll help you maintain a healthy
weight and stay strong.[1] Oh, and chug the water, too!
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Buy new gear. Spending
money and having nothing to show for it is a pretty crappy feeling. So
when you spend triple digits on shoes, pants, and other gear, you gotta use it. So go out and buy a new workout outfit! Part of you will be chomping at the bit to go slink it around the gym.
- However, this won't work if you leave it in a bag in your car or
bury it at the back of your closet. When you buy that outfit, leave it
out. Place it on your dresser, on your bed -- heck, on the kitchen
counter -- to torment you until you wear it. Once again, the whole "out
of sight, out of mind" thing is what you're working on here. Constant
reminders will keep you on the right track!
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Substitute sedentary, unproductive activities with healthy ones.
For instance, make an effort to go to the gym each time you would
instead of watching a TV show you don't really like after one you do
like. You'll feel motivated to exercise each time the old, deprecated
activity comes up in your mind, and not short on time due to the new
exercise habit.
- How often do we get lazy and do things that we're not particularly
engaged in? All. The. Time. Everyone does. So next time you find
yourself channel surfing, take it as a cue. You don't have to go to the
gym, but get up and go for a walk. Clean the dishes. Organize the
garage. Just do something else. You'll feel better (and more productive)
after!
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Get halfway there. If
you want to go to the gym, but just don't feel like it, just drive
yourself to gym. Tell yourself that if you still don't feel like working
out, you'll go home. Odds are, though, once you're there, you won't
feel like driving home. Then tell yourself you'll just walk on the
treadmill for 10 minutes, even if your exercise routine involves much
more. Just telling yourself to do one more thing, without having to
commit to anything else, will make things much easier. And before long,
your endorphins will take over.
- If your form of exercise involves going outside, a good first step
is to get dressed and just sit outside. A good next step is to walk.
You'll find that once you're dressed to go and walking, exercise doesn't
seem like such a big stretch.
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Make yourself accountable.
Even though we're our own worst critics, we also are our own worst
enablers. We'll set our minds to one thing on Monday and by Tuesday
morning we're onto something else. That's why we've gotta have others
holding us accountable, too. Tell your family, friends, and coworkers of
your plan -- knowing the questions are coming will surely be motivation
to get on it!
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Keep a journal.
So you've told everyone and their brother about your workout plan --
wonderful! Now it's time to record your progress. You'll want concrete
numbers (and you'll want to remember them) to report to yourself and to
the world around you. This journal could be on paper, on your computer,
or even a blog on the Internet the world can chime in on.
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Read magazines, blogs, and success stories.
Though you might think you'd turn green with envy, you'd be surprised
-- reading up on the topic at hand may be just the motivation you need.
It keeps your mind on working out and shows you just how doable it is.
What's more, you'll learn from what you read, resulting in you being
more knowledgeable and resourceful.
- Reading others' success stories, apart from being heartwarming, will
make you think, "Well, heck, if she can do it, so can I." And that's
exactly how it works -- you see these normal people (just like the rest
of us) who took on these marvelous feats and came out ahead. You're
next!
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Turn everything off. In
today's world, you feel naked when you disconnect from technology. How
often are you more than 10 feet away from your phone? Maybe when you
shower, maybe? So turn it off. Turn it all off. What's there left to do? Go for a workout.
- That includes the TV, your phone, the computer, the whole gamut of
technology. When the time rolls around to work out and you're not
feeling it, disconnect. Don't let yourself use these things. You may
find that you're bored enough to go for that run!
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Surround yourself with motivating people. The world is full of people that want you to fail. These people are insecure, unhappy, and just plain mean. Avoid them. You know who they are. They'll make this process so much harder to accomplish. They're not worth it.
- Working out is such a common thing nowadays. If it's not working
out, it's dieting. Nobody is happy with what they look like or their
health levels it seems. Use this to your advantage! Do you have a group
of coworkers, friends, or family members that are going through the same
thing? Suggest you team up! You all can put yours heads together to
support each other. After all, there's strength in numbers.
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Trade weight for cash. A 2007 study showed that the more you pay people to lose weight, the more pounds they drop over a three-month period.[2]
Doesn't exactly sound like rocket science, huh? If there's someone who
keeps nagging you to lose weight, ask that person about paying you for
every pound you lose! Odds are they'll pay up or shut up.
- If your employer is self-insured, he or she might consider enlisting
the services of a company that develops reward programs to encourage
employees to lose weight.[3]
Method 3 of 3: Motivating Your Routine
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Do something small, right now.
Going all the way to the gym, or getting decked out in your jogging
gear, or doing whatever it is you feel you should be doing obviously
seems like too much work. So just do ten push-ups or jumping jacks.
Easy. And usually, it's just enough to get your heart rate going a
little bit and make you feel like a little more exercise wouldn't be so
bad.
- Half the battle may be that working out seems like it just takes so
much damn time. Between getting ready, going, working out, showering,
getting home, and getting back into your day, hours have just
disappeared. But doing small things can be effective, too! Don't write
'em off just because you're not drenched in sweat.
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Make it enjoyable. If
someone hands you a book on something you have zero interest in reading,
you're gonna glance at the front cover, the back cover, maaaaybe flip
through the pages, and set it down to gather dust. So if you hand your
body and mind an equivalent workout, don't expect anything different. Do
something that you enjoy, will stick to, and want to see through to the
end.
- This may take readjusting your concept of "working out." It's
anything that gets you moving! You don't have to go pounding the
pavement or asking for a spotter at the gym. Go swimming, go for a walk
in the park, take a dance class -- anything. If you like it, do it. It
counts!
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Make it doable. Let's
stick with the book metaphor. If someone hands you the unabridged, Latin
version of the Bible, what would you do? You might be fascinated for a
while and tell yourself you're gonna do it(!)...and then two Latin
lessons in you decide Oprah's Book Club is more up your alley.
Basically, when it comes to working out (and reading), to stay
motivated, don't bite off more than you can chew. Make it doable -- make
it small.
- It's easy to sit on the couch on Sunday evening and say, "Okay --
I'm starting. I'm running 4 miles a day every day until I shed these 20
pounds!" Yeah. About that. You might be revved up for the first few
days, but then you stumble so quickly it's impossible to get back up on
the horse. So start with 20 minutes a day. A mile walk. Then, up it as
you go. If it's doable, guess what? You can do it. And you will.
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Make it convenient. Your
favorite author just wrote a new novel that's supposed to be really
good -- but it's only available at a store across town, the hours are
1:30-2:00 on Thursdays, and there's no parking lot. Are you gonna get
that book? Probably not. Same goes for your workout. If it's
inconvenient, it's not gonna happen. Pick one that you can get done that
doesn't cut into your day so you get 'er done (or else you'll end up
resentful, too).
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Pick a gym
that makes sense. Even if the best one is 30 minutes away, you'll be
better off going to a decent one that's on your way home from work.
Alternatively, plan out a routine you can do at home (yoga, anyone?) and fix it into your schedule. When there are no two ways around it, you'll feel obligated to do it.
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Get a buddy. This is
similar to the "make yourself accountable" step. When you have another
person depending on you (for a ride, for a partner at the gym,
whatever), the guilt of letting that person down forces you to do what
you promised you'd do. And since you definitely know at least one person
that works out, too, this is an easy resource to tap into.
- Okay, so you're not close enough to anyone that you feel is "on your
level?" Join a class or get a trainer. You'll have the added pressure
of getting your money's worth -- many places will still charge you if
you skip out.
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Go for a quick, but intense, workout.
Kill the "I don't have time" excuse by developing a routine that
engages every muscle in your body in just a few minutes. Just because a
workout is long doesn't mean it's good and just because a workout is
short doesn't mean it's bad. Kill those misconceptions!
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Get into interval training.
If your schedule is jammed pack, this is the workout for you. If you
haven't heard of it, where have you been? High intensity interval
training is one of the fastest fat-blasting workouts on the planet (at
least right now). You simply alternate between super intense bouts of
exercise and rest.[4]
The easiest example is 30 seconds full out on the treadmill followed by
20 seconds of rest, but you can do it with weights, too.
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Switch it up. If you've
been going for a walk around the same park three times a week for the
past 2 1/2 years, you may feel a little bored of your current routine
and lose the drive to keep going. Such an easily solvable problem! Do
something new! The novelty of a new activity will excite you and keep
your brain going.
- If you like the idea of sticking to a routine that requires zero
weights and zero gym memberships, don't think you have to work these two
in. If you're a runner, try running someplace else, running at a
different time of day, or concentrating on sprints, a better time, or a
better overall distance. You can change your goals, too! As long as you
keep your body wondering what the heck is going on, your mind will stay
awake, rejuvenated, and motivated.
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